Recently I learned just how rotten people can indeed be, it comes as a complete surprise to me because I actually missed all the indications on a certain individual...Slipped right by me. Well, serves me right, I forgot and let my guard down. Everyday I am greeted by 4 furry faces that are a constant reminder why I like animals better than people, my expierience of the last few days with a certain disturbed individual reminds me why I feel this way. Animals don't lie, steal, yell,mislead you,hurt your feelings, park in handicapped spots(don't even get me started on this one, this is a blog/rant for another day), bite the hand that feeds them, etc. And in case you don't know me, here's a heads up, I despise games, drama and being lied to and for this reason I have cleaned my closet, so to speak. Lightened my "Friends List", in the last 2 yrs I've disposed of disposable "Friends" these are people you probably also have in your life who couldn't give a rats ass about you but stick around because of what you can do for them. Watch how quickly they disappear when you stop doing for them, don't be too upset when that happens, it really is a good thing. Personally I feel so much better without all that drama weighing me down, the headaches and the upset phone calls I got every week.
Sometimes these people are like gas, they sneek back up on you when you least expect it. It's like eating chilli when you know your going to wind up with bad gas, not that theres good gas, but you go ahead and eat it anyways. Well thats what the "Drama People" are like, you can't open even a little window for them or they'll be back just like that nasty gas. I made that mistake and now I'm feeling anxious and angry at my own stupidity, I know better.
I think the best thing we can all do for ourselves is this, be nice to each other, don't lie, mistreat or be nasty to one another.And since we all know there are millions of idiots in this world who don't live by those rules the only thing the rest of us can do is avoid the drama, don't be afraid to get rid of the excess weight in your life. You go through life once, do you really want to drag around people who just needlessly weight you down? Don't you just hate that awful feeling when you know that certain someone in your life is really just an arsehole in the disguise of a "Friend"?
It may be one of the hardest things for you to do, well at least you'll feel like that at first, but then it dawns on you, your really feeling a whole lot better and you have more of yourself to give to your real friends!
This is your one and only life, don't waste a second of it on anyone that is not willing to give back to you emotionally what you give to them. I always told my daughter "Listen to your gut, it will never steer you wrong"...If you have doubts about anyone in your life, be it a friend, boyfriend,husband or whatever, trust your instincts. Don't keep trying to make excuses for peoples bad behaviour and give them chance after chance to screw you over...Get it done and over with as soon as you can, take care of your own happiness, most times the only one who will do that for you, is you.
Have a nice week...;)
Sometimes these people are like gas, they sneek back up on you when you least expect it. It's like eating chilli when you know your going to wind up with bad gas, not that theres good gas, but you go ahead and eat it anyways. Well thats what the "Drama People" are like, you can't open even a little window for them or they'll be back just like that nasty gas. I made that mistake and now I'm feeling anxious and angry at my own stupidity, I know better.
I think the best thing we can all do for ourselves is this, be nice to each other, don't lie, mistreat or be nasty to one another.And since we all know there are millions of idiots in this world who don't live by those rules the only thing the rest of us can do is avoid the drama, don't be afraid to get rid of the excess weight in your life. You go through life once, do you really want to drag around people who just needlessly weight you down? Don't you just hate that awful feeling when you know that certain someone in your life is really just an arsehole in the disguise of a "Friend"?
It may be one of the hardest things for you to do, well at least you'll feel like that at first, but then it dawns on you, your really feeling a whole lot better and you have more of yourself to give to your real friends!
This is your one and only life, don't waste a second of it on anyone that is not willing to give back to you emotionally what you give to them. I always told my daughter "Listen to your gut, it will never steer you wrong"...If you have doubts about anyone in your life, be it a friend, boyfriend,husband or whatever, trust your instincts. Don't keep trying to make excuses for peoples bad behaviour and give them chance after chance to screw you over...Get it done and over with as soon as you can, take care of your own happiness, most times the only one who will do that for you, is you.
Have a nice week...;)
